Wednesday, April 3, 2013

Free hugs!!!

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Imbratisarea este un schimb intens de energii, de preferat pozitive, intre doua sau mai multe persoane, un fel de act sexual la care satisfactia deplina nu se exprima prin stare de somnolenta ulterioara, asta mai ales daca a fost facut cum trebuie.

Imbratisarile de grup vin de obicei la pachet cu sticle de licori magice, si de cele mai multe ori nu ajung la rezultatul scontat, drept pentru care se tot repeta, pana la finalizarea cu succes a sticlelor in cauza.

Ne amintim cele mai bizare imbratisari, nu neaparat cele mai importante, cum ar fi cele date de parinti, frati, iubiti, prieteni dragi. De exemplu, mie mi-a ramas in minte imbratisarea primita de la o colega de munca, imediat dupa moartea catelului meu. Plangeam ca un copil pe holul "intreprinderii" si ea a venit si mi-a transferat energia necesara pentru a merge mai departe, printr-o imbratisare. Nu am apucat sa ii multumesc niciodata.

Cred ca ne impartim in doua categorii: oameni care stiu si pot sa ofere imbratisari adevarate, la care totul vine natural, ca si cum ar fi nascuti pentru asta, si ceilalti, pentru care spatiul intim e mult prea important, dar care profita, cand pot, de o imbratisare adevarata. Mereu am facut parte din a doua categorie...

Ieri un grup colorat de activisti, cine stie in ce domeniu, imparteau cu generozitate imbratisari gratis, undeva pe Haupstrasse. Aveau o pancarta mare pe care scria cu litere mari, rosii "Free Hugs". Trecatorii se fereau mai mult sau mai putin politicos. In fata mea, o turista entuziasmata a muscat momeala si s-a aruncat intr-o imbratisare cu straina "activista", care a ramas de piatra, facandu-ma martora la o imbratisare ratata din toate punctele de vedere.

M-a cuprins o tristete bizara si m-am ferit si eu din calea spectacolului, am imbratisari platite in avans, OP-ul il pastrez in suflet si pe chip, insa nu contenesc sa investesc mereu si mereu.

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A hug is an intense exchange of energies, preferably positive, between two or more people, a kind of sexual act in which full satisfaction is not expressed by subsequent sleepiness, especially if it has been done properly.

Group hugs usually come with bottles of magic liquor, and most of the time they do not achieve the desired result, which is why they are repeated until the bottles are successfully completed.

We remember the most bizarre hugs, not necessarily the most important ones, such as those given by parents, siblings, lovers, dear friends. For example, I remember of the hug I received from a co-worker right after the death of my puppy. I was crying like a baby in the hallway of the "enterprise" and she came and transferred to me the necessary energy to go on, with a hug. I never got to thank her.

I think we fall into two categories: people who know and can give real hugs, to whom everything comes naturally, as if they were born for it, and others, for whom the intimate space is far too important, but who take advantage, when they can, of a real hug. I've always belonged to the second category...

Yesterday a colourful group of activists, who knows in what field, were generously sharing free hugs somewhere on Haupstrasse. They had a big sign on which was written in big red letters "Free Hugs". Passers-by more or less politely shied away. In front of me, an excited tourist took the bait and jumped into a hug with the "activist" stranger, who remained stoned, making me witness a hug that was a failure in every detail.

A bizarre sadness came over me and I dodged out of the way of the show, I have prepaid hugs, the proof of payment I keep in my heart and on my face, but I keep investing over and over again.

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